Happy Halloween! I am finally writing a new newsletter. Please accept my apologies for procrastinating and not writing for a while. I do like sending these messages out to my friends but I get busy making a living and spending time with family etc.

 

I went to a Halloween party last weekend and, just to be different, I dressed up as a housewife in nightgown, bathrobe, slippers and cream on my face. It was fun being different from what was expected.

 

I have been writing ads that address newbies directly and that is going very well. It pleases me to be able to give newbies a good first experience. When they visit I also tell them how to stay safe when going to see someone new and how to tell if the woman is legit (reviews and web sites).

 

Perhaps this is a place where I can share some pointers on seeing a provider you haven't seen before:

 

Check to see if she has reviews (local review boards and theeroticreview.com).

 

Look at her web site if she has one and make sure you know what the rate is for the amount of time you want and how she wants you to deal with the donation.

 

If you want her to remember you and be a reference for you in the future (I do give references) then bring an unusual present or leave a big tip ; )

 

When you contact her be nice and act as if she is a woman you wish to take on a date. Don't say explicitly sexual things. Then when you are with her treat her like she is someone's sister or daughter. She'll be happy to see you again.

 

Anyway, it is Fall and the rains are starting. Stay warm and take care of yourself.

 

Vanessa De Thrall